Why Justine Musk Walked Away from Elon Musk: 17 Years Later, She Explains

Seventeen years after their marriage ended, Justine Musk has spoken candidly about the reasons she decided to divorce Elon Musk. Her account paints a picture of a relationship that was increasingly defined by imbalance, power struggles, and a lack of mutual respect.

According to Justine, their marriage, while marked by ambition and success, became a partnership where she often felt more like an employee than a spouse. She has said that during their marriage, Elon would sometimes make comments that made her feel as though she needed to constantly prove herself — not as a wife, but as a subordinate. She described a moment where she confronted him, saying: “I am your wife — not your employee.”

Financial and personal dynamics added further strain. Even with a post-nuptial agreement in place, Justine later realized she had given up much of her rights in the marriage, leaving her feeling powerless and undervalued. Efforts to repair the relationship through marriage counseling were brief and ultimately ineffective. In her recounting, a therapist once told her that Elon had already filed for divorce, delivering the news in a moment that left her stunned and blindsided.

The couple also endured personal tragedy, including the loss of their first child. Justine has said that while she tried to keep the family together, she eventually understood that Elon’s focus on business and achievement often took precedence over their marital relationship.

Looking back, Justine emphasizes that leaving was not an act of defeat but a choice to reclaim her own life. She has expressed respect for Elon’s brilliance and achievements, but also asserts that a marriage cannot survive on ambition alone; respect, equality, and emotional support are essential.

In her own words, the decision to walk away allowed her to preserve her dignity and her sense of self. While the marriage was highly public and scrutinized, her story highlights the often-unseen personal challenges behind the headlines and the importance of prioritizing one’s own well-being even in the shadow of fame and wealth.