Farmer Put on the Spot: The Intimate Question That Made Him Panic on Live TV — What He Said Next… 😳
She may not have been the one to capture Farmer Dylan’s heart on Farmer Wants a Wife, but with news of Dylan’s split with Ally now confirmed, Scarlett is dishing on what went down on the farm.
The 22-year-old polo player and horse musterer was one of Dylan’s front-runners during her time on the show — and she has subsequently confirmed he remains one of her “closest friends.”
In an August 11 TikTok video, Scarlett revealed she has received one particular question from fans “so many times,” leading her to “put an end” to all the speculation.
The question on everybody’s lips?
“Did anyone sleep with each other during the show?”
“I can tell you right now, no one did,” Scarlett shared. “There are a bunch of protocols if you want to do that, and I think it’s just a bit of a weird situation where, like, a guy is dating five other girls.
“Like, you don’t really want to sleep with them until you know you are the one that they want at the end. So yeah, nothing happened there.”
Scarlett also revealed what she considered the biggest thing she learned during her reality TV stint.
“Biggest thing that I learned was that I need to work on being more vulnerable and actually not being scared to put my feelings on the line,” she explained.
“I went in and I was like, I’m not gonna be vulnerable. Like, I can’t be vulnerable. I’m scared to do that, and I learned that I need to.
“And even in my life now, I’m like, I need to just rip the bandaid off, say how I feel, and I still struggle with that now.”
She continued: “The hardest thing that I learned was that love isn’t end all, like I don’t know how to word it. I don’t know how to word this. It’s really hard. Love isn’t end all. Love is not everything in the world.
“Love for yourself is everything in the world. That is what I’m trying to say. And to expand on that a little better is if you don’t have love for yourself, you’re gonna find yourself sacrificing things for your partner that you’re not ready to sacrifice or you don’t necessarily want to sacrifice.”
When it came to her least favourite part of being on the show, Scarlett’s answer was simple: she hated “the end.”
“It was so scary, and you kind of get to this point where you just want to know what’s gonna happen,” she explained. “I mean, my fun blew up towards the end.”
Scarlett said she found it hard to express her feelings while other girls remained on the scene.
“I think Ally and I really struggled with that a lot,” she divulged.
So what about her relationship with Dylan? Have things changed since his split with Ally?
“No, Dylan. I need to make this very clear. Dylan and I are close friends. I love Dylan as a friend, and it will never be anything more than that,” Scarlett explained.
